Advice.

Música101 · 08-09-2008, 12:07 PM

Can I talk to you people about something. This guy used to make fun of me. Peope would say just ingore it he likes you. My question is How do you know if a guys likes you or is just making fun of you? I would like an answer from a guy too.

This guy would
- Tell people that we talked for hours on the phone
- said he knew where my bed room was
- Stared and followed me around. He would get like right on top of me.
- said that " I can't wait to see you again" was written my him to me
- said that we would get marrie and have 20 kids
- tried to grab my butt a lot
- Said want to make cereal you bring the milk and I'll bring the cereal.
- Him and his friends whould gain up on me in study hall
- In math class he said that he "Love me"

and more.

jandros · 08-09-2008, 01:27 PM

Ok, first opinion from a man: This guy sounds like a total creep and I would never trust being near him, without my best friends or family around, and preferably a least one very big male friend or family member who could beat the *#$% out of that guy at the first opportunity.

That's just my humble opinion

Seriously, he just sounds like a complete jerk, obessed, self-centered, maybe even a stalker, not to be trusted at all.

PROPEL · 08-09-2008, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by jandros

Ok, first opinion from a man: This guy sounds like a total creep and I would never trust being near him, without my best friends or family around, and preferably a least one very big male friend or family member who could beat the *#$% out of that guy at the first opportunity.

That's just my humble opinion

Seriously, he just sounds like a complete jerk, obessed, self-centered, maybe even a stalker, not to be trusted at all.

amen.. amen

not just a total creep, but a MAJOR creep.
and who needs to get a life.

Música101 · 08-09-2008, 03:49 PM

He is a creep. Like on day in Math class he said that he liked to wear womans underwear.Anotherday he also said that he was going to get a brazilian wax.
And thing thing is all the guys like him. It's so strage.

PROPEL · 08-09-2008, 04:15 PM

^uhh. is he gay? hah jk jk

Música101 · 08-09-2008, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by PROPEL

^uhh. is he gay? hah jk jk

I don't know?

PROPEL · 08-09-2008, 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Música101

I don't know?

hahha i said that as a joke (not to offend anyone) when you said all the guys like him.
haha

i know what you ment by that.

i think hes just a creep with insecurities

Música101 · 08-09-2008, 04:50 PM

His friend is weird to. One day in History class he said that
"professional suciders reincarnate"

PROPEL · 08-09-2008, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Música101

His friend is weird to. One day in History class he said that
"professional suciders reincarnate"

uhh can you say pscho much?
hahhah

they sound really strangee

Música101 · 08-09-2008, 04:56 PM

The guys in my school are f'ed up.
They talk about how they smake(sp) each other butts.
I miss normal guys.

PROPEL · 08-09-2008, 05:01 PM

^smack.

uhhh. that's really weird. i mean, really weird.

Música101 · 08-09-2008, 05:03 PM

Help me.... jk

PROPEL · 08-09-2008, 05:06 PM

^homeschooling?

hah. no don't do that..

Uhh, what grade are you in?

Música101 · 08-09-2008, 05:07 PM

I'm going into 10th

I'm fine =]

PROPEL · 08-09-2008, 05:10 PM

^ohh sophmore.
thats awsome

Música101 · 08-09-2008, 05:17 PM

yep

I'm guessing your in 12th or 11th?

jandros · 08-09-2008, 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Música101

...he said that he liked to wear womans underwear....brazilian wax....all the guys like him. It's so strage.

..... maybe he's just a stupid prankster? A sick, stupid, juvenile joker? Maybe he does or says strange things, and brags about them, just to be popular with the juveniles? The neanderthals?

But I really hope you'll be careful. Some people have no conscience.

PROPEL · 08-09-2008, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Música101

yep

I'm guessing your in 12th or 11th?

12th now. (school starts the 25th)

MayGoLoco · 08-12-2008, 09:59 AM

Well don't guys usually try to mirror girls (do everything they do) like a mime and stare in the girls eyes, say sweet stuff and try to hold your hand.

But this guy sounds pretty creapy to me too.
I would ignore him, or just go and talk to him.
Ask him why he's being like that, say it's creaping you out and that it's probably better to leave you alone

I also met guys like that in buses while I was going home/ to school.
They stare at you the whole time, ask you what your name is...saying oh baby you're so cute blabla
I wanna have 10 kids with you, When I saw you the sun started shining.
One guy told me (from Africa) he wanted to buy me a bead neckless and that we were meant to be. He discribed his home country like we were going on vacation together hahaha.

Guess some guys are really retards... and this only happens to me.
None of my friend have these types of guys coming on to them. :S just my luck I guess...

So girlfriend you're not the only one this happens to!

Just ask him about it, maybe it will stop.

jandros · 08-12-2008, 10:22 AM

A story about my own daughter, if you won't mind: She's a beautiful girl, and so I wanted her to learn how to be careful, and how to deal with stupid jerks, or even people who might be a little dangerous.

So: When she was 14, a creep at her school started to follow her around, kind of the same thing, but not even as weird as you descirbe this boy. But he would not leave her alone, no matter what she said or did. No matter now many times the teachers talked to him, warned him, he did the same things to a lot of girls ... only because he could get away with it.

One day, this boy slapped my daughter on the butt. My daughter lost her temper completely. She turned and she hit the boy, with her fist, in the throat. And he fell back on his butt, and he couldn't breathe for a few seconds! .....

So the principle of the school called me ...

... and I had go and talk to him, together with my daughter. But when the principle heard the entire story ... he didn't laugh, but I could see that he was ... amused

... and he also knew that the boy deserved it, because he had also heard other complaints about the boy. But from that day forward, the boy did not cause problems for any other girls. He learned to have respect, and even a little fear.

But anyway, I can't say it enough: Sometimes there are "harmless" things, but sometimes, some things are not so harmless.

Maybe ask him, or even tell him ... explain something to him, in a way that won't anger him. Maybe something miraculous will happen

But always be careful! Even if you talk to him, and even if he seems nice afterward, it might be an act. Something would need to be proven, in a lot of different ways.