I am trying to identify the woman or the female group
who sang this 1980s R&B lyrics. If anyone can identify
the title, they are darn good!

"It's the things you say, it's the things you do
'cause you never who who is watching you.

Better think about all the good and bad things in a love affair
You might look around to find out I might not be there.

Oh, you better hold on cause if you ever let go, I might be gone.
You know there's always someone to take your place
Honey use your mind, I've got the love you'll never find."