My daughter has been looking for this song forever but we cant figure it out. One of the lyrics is "why can't they tell me what happening to me". The only thing i know is it's a girl group who sings it and i think it was early 2000 or maybe 2001 not sure but we do remeber the video a little it's the 4 or 5 girls and there in this big house like a mansion and there in long dresses and its a song about coming of age. Pleas help!