This is going to be pretty vage but here it goes. It is song I heard on WXPN in Philadelphia around 1996. It's a medium-slow male/female duet. The male voice is rough, gravelly and pleading. He may be the lead vocalist from Sonic Youth or a like punk band. I remember thinking "this is pretty slow for these guys". The female voice is sweet and she's not taking any guff. He's basically saying "I'm sorry" and she's making him suffer. Until the end of the song where I think she forgives him. Ring any bells?