Solved: "if you're going through the motions of love"

Hi, I have to cassette tape and there's this song I believe titled "motions of love". It sounds like late 80s or early 90s slow jam, and the singer sounds like Stevie B, and the beat has that bass sound from Timmy T - One More Try. Here are the lyrics:

(guy talks)
(in spanish) dígame por qué. tell me why. (something in spanish again that translate to) you need to tell me what you're thinking

(first verse)
I could see it in your eyes, every day you cry
Somethings telling me it's not the same
You could tell me it's alright, everything will be fine
But if my heart doesn't know it, if you can't show it
You're only giving me the notion

(chorus)
If you're going through the motions of love, oohh
If you're going through the motions
And if its me
If you really love me you gotta do more than try, oh why
If you're going through the motions

(guy talks)
If you really love me you gotta do much more than try.
Kick it to em "Frost"

(second verse)
If something is going wrong, lets try to be strong
There isn't anything we can't by
Ohh, I'm not playing games, baby I'll take the blame
Cause if it's me you're deceivin', this heart is not believin'
You're only given me the notion

(chorus)
If you're going through the motions of love, hmm
If you're going through the motions
And if its me
If you really love me, you gotta do more than try, oh why
If you're going through the motions

(guy talks)
Do you understand what I'm trying to say to you. Just chill and listen.

(bridge)
Please don't tell me I don't love you lady
Please don't tell me I don't care
All I know, All I know is that I need you baby
Loving you, I'm wanting you, I need you always to be there

(guy talks)
Break it down. Break it down. This is the situation, I can not read your mind, if there's a problem, come to me, you know we could work it out

(chorus)
If you're going through the motions of love, oohh
If you're going through the motions
Listen to me
If you really love me, you gotta do more than try, try, try
If you're going through the motions

(chorus repeats till the end)

Try Going Through The Motions - Aftershock there's even Spanish in this song!
But I am not sure about the year of the song yet..
ah... 1991! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UIgdQrMSCpQ

That's the one. Wow this site is great. Glad I joined.

This tune has been stuck in my head for years. And I finally found the tape to write down the lyrics.

Thank you very much.