80's or 90's Country Balad

Hi
Does anyone know the name of this counrty balad, the song starts with the following words

"Spare me all your tales of woe you brought this on yourself you know Well I'm not gonna take you back I'd rather spend my nights alone You could've tried a little harder stayed a little longer, or loved a little better, build a little stronger, but Chorus: you gave up on me all I ever did to you was give you everything I gave you all you needed baby can’t you see that the only thing you gave was up on me. "

Any help, ideas or clues would be very much appreciated

Try "You Gave Up on Me" by Rachel Loy