Song Stuck in my head

This song is probably at least almost 20 years old know i still don't know what its called i have tried everything i probably dont even have the right words for the lyrics which doesn't help but if anyone could help i would be eternally greatful... so these are the ones I think are in there somewhere (it is sung by a woman and has beautiful orchestral string chords all the way through it)

We all have crosses to bear
....
When they don't understand
You've gotta leave it all behind

Chorus
Goodbyyyyyeeee.....
x3

Try "Cross To Bear" by Vonda Shepard