I heard this song on CD101, Columbus, Ohio's alternative music station, sometime between 1990 and 1993; I believe that it was closer to fall 1992/spring 1993. The lead singer is a female. The song is rather fast, but not poppy; it would be in the vein of The Banderas' 'She Sells,' The Darling Buds' 'It Makes No Difference,' Curve, etc.

I have tried for years to find the song via Googling lyrics, but have been unsuccessful due to the fact that the lyrics that I am remembering may or may not be accurate. What I hear in my head is this:

Slowing down
(almost lovely almost lovely)
Slowing down
(almost lovely almost lovely)

It's dangerous these things we say
It's dangerous these things we say

Oh, look at the ?
Look at the ?

I know that this is not a lot to go on, but any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!