don't be afraid

i don't know what i'm doin but i need to know what this song is or at least who its by. its some rock song with some chick singin. says somethin like "...give me a syringe to inject the pain. give me a cake that i can mix & bake in a betty crocker oven...(somethin somethin screamy)....don't be afraid"
..yeah...

its some dude kind of just talkin...towards the end he sorta screams "the teenage guide to popularity!"....great song. need to find it

the answer to the second question is "Popular" by Nada Surf

I believe the first song you are looking for is "American Made" by Jack Off Jill