Please Help: "Take off my shirt"

I'm making my girlfriend a mix-tape of songs that I know are really important to her because either they mark an important point in our relationship or the lyrics are significant, and though I've got a pretty good play list put together there is one HUGE glaring omission that I have to fix before I can give her the mix. I need the song that was playing during our first kiss, the problem is I was obviously pretty preoccupied at the time and wasn't paying too much attention to the music playing. Anyway, here's everything I know...

It's a Rap or R&B song and it would have come out prior to (or most likely around) the summer of 2001, It was playing on the radio so I assume it must have been at least fairly popular, if I remember correctly (big IF) the song is performed mainly by a male singer but the chorus is a girl singing something like "Take your shirt off" or "take off your shirt" or really any close variation of this that involves getting undressed, it could have even been "take off my top" or "Take my shirt off" instead of "take off your shirt"; It's even possible the song could have been sang entirely by the girl, as all I really remember is that bit of the chorus, but I'm pretty sure it was a guy.

I know this is very very little to go on, so I'm just really hoping that by some miracle somebody here knows the song I'm talking about. It would mean so much to my girlfriend if I found this, we haven't heard it since that night and she would just be amazed if I surprised her with it.

My guess is Boyz II Men "I'll Make Love to You"

Close your eyes, make a wish
And blow out the candlelight
For tonight is just your night
We're gonna celebrate all thru the night
Pour the wine, light the fire
Girl your wish is my command
I submit to your demands
I will do anything, girl you need only ask

Chorus:
I'll make love to you
Like you want me to
And I'll hold you tight
Baby all through the night
I'll make love to you
When you want me to
And I will not let go
'Till you tell me to

Girl relax, let's go slow
I ain't got nowhere to go
I'm just gonna concentrate on you
Girl are you ready, it's gonna be a long night
Throw your clothes on the floor
I'm gonna take my clothes off too
I made plans to be with you
Girl whatever you ask me, you know, I will do

Chorus:
I'll make love to you
Like you want me to
And I'll hold you tight
Baby all through the night
I'll make love to you
When you want me to
And I will not let go
'Till you tell me to

Baby tonight is your night
And I will do you right
Just make a wish on your night
Anything that you ask
I will give you the love of your life

Chorus:
I'll make love to you (I'll make)
Like you want me to (love)
And I'll hold you tight (hold you tight)
Baby all through the night
I'll make love to you (I'll Make)
When you want me to (love)
And I will not let go
'Till you tell me to

I'll make love to you (I'll make)
Like you want me to (love)
And I'll hold you tight (hold you tight)
Baby all through the night
I'll make love to you (I'll Make)
When you want me to (love)
And I will not let go
'Till you tell me to

Unfortunately I don't think that's it. See, I know for a fact that the song made a direct reference to removing your shirt, and it was said multiple times (at least twice). We'll not go into why I'm so sure of this, you'll just have to trust me on this one. ;-)

Maybe Tweet (feat. Fabolous, Missy Elliott) - "oops oh my"

maybe destinys child t-shirt?

it could be Nelly's "hot in herre"

it's getting hot in here
so take off all your clothes
i am getting so hot
i wanna take my clothes off

it is done by a male rapper but a female sings in the chorus

adina howard - t-shirt & my panties on