Tryin to find what this song is called!!

Been looking for this song for a while but i prolly won't find it.. i actualli do have the song but onli part of it.. you see i was listenin to the radio on my iRiver and heard this song (i fink under a christian radio music station or something like rock or alternative). When i did hear it i managed 2 click the record button n managed to recored about 1/3 of the song. So far these are the lyrics (not 100% sure if they are what he sez) that i can hear n understand.

(chorus i believe) "look at the neighbours (neighbors), im glad i dint turn out like them, look how they struggle, maybe we should think about helping"
(bridge i fink) "pretty hoarse (or horse lol not sure) scream my name what a disgrace, you won't ever find me talkin to you, they lead dangerous lies (or lives)"

thats not a christain song that i know of