This song's been in my head, it's genre is alternative i guess.
It starts 'you gave me that look across the table at dinner time, your toes caressed my ankle and i notice your breathing getting heavy' then later the chorus goes 'but you know i don't have to tell you it's not just about that, it's not just about that - you know we don't have to prove it was never about that, never about that' etc...
Btw, if i don't find it... i'll go mad
Thanks to anyone who can help.