This will be hard because I don't have a lot of information and what I can remember might be incorrect. I really hope that I can find this song, though. It has been driving me nuts for several months.
This is an alt-rock type song. If you live in Dallas/Forth Worth, or surrounding, it has been played on the Edge. The only thing that I can remember is there is a pause in the song at the end of a chorus or bridge and a woman sings the lyric "for how long" or "how long" and then the music and lead singer starts back up. I think it may have been briefly popular in the late 90's or early 2000.
Any help would be greatly appreciated. I can't get that part out of my head and I need to know what the song is. Thank you in advance.