male singer, sounds like it could be from the 80s or 90s, heard on rock station (classic rock, metal). I tried googling what I thought were the lyrics, but none of the songs that came up are the one I'm looking for, so I may have gotten them wrong.
Chorus:
Where were you [sung by group], when I needed love [lead singer only]
Where were you " , when...[either repeated above, or variation]
Where were yooooouuuuu
Broke my heart, when you said goodbye
That's all I can recall.