artist and title please anyone?

i need the artist and title of a pop song that came out around 2003 the chorus goes something like, it seems to me that maybe it pretty much always means no so don't tell me you might just let it go and often times we're lazy it seems to stand in my way but no one knows now no one has to be let down. anyone with any info about this song would be GREATLY appreciated thanks

i think it could be flake by jack johnson