I thought I'd better put my birthday-wishes here. So, happy birthday Haydee. But how do I find out who is a he and who is a she? My first guess was Haydee=(M), no doubt due to your avatar. This is how I see the situation now as far as the regular visitors are concerned:
(M): me (the only one I'm really sure of), RT
(F): BE, Korcare, TD and - so it seems - Haydee, Lollipop, Layla, Steena
No offence if I'm wrong, just correct me please. (seems all the admins are F)