I'm looking in I'm looking out- Deep Heavy metal

I'm looking for a song that sounds like it is from a combination goth & heavy metal group-not a loud, headbanging guitar rift type song. I have heard the song before-probably from late 90's or 2000-2006 period. It's a somewhat slow "dark" song.

Lyrics within the song are?? I'm looking in, I'm looking out.

Got a youtube video???