I have no idea who sings it or the title, and barely remember any lyrics so this may be tough. It is from the late 80s I believe, and rock though not a hair band. I remember the video had something to do with a haunted house the band was in and the lead singer was in an armchair at times wearing a black suit. Lyrics I can only partially remember are part of the chorus.
"I don't know why sometimes I get frightened,
look in my eyes and see that it's not.....
Don't remember after that.
If you can help I would appreciate it.