i need alittle help plz!!

[MAD]

hello everyone .. i am new here but i like this fourm .. anyway my problem maybe nt too much related to this kind of fourms but ... i am desparate for an answer ... here is my problem : i am a net addictor if u know what i mean .. and i play some online game .. where i met that girl ... i began to talk to her in this game then i took her YM and we started to be close friends ... and i started to help her in this game ... well next .. i fall in love with her ;( , but i didn't show that to her at the begining coz i did not believe that this relation will work because each of us live in adifferent country .. well we kept talking and once she told me she like or myabe love another guy who talk to on the internet .. ofcourse i was heart-broken but as always i didn't show that either .. anyway as our "friendship" continue with my secret love to her i have found that this guy who she like dont take her serious as he is older than her with 8 years!! , but she kept lovin him and i was still heart-broken , and i started to chat and flarit with other girls from this game and she ofcourse saw that and she acted strange .. as she showed astrange jealousy ... friends dont get jealous , dont they ?? , anyway once she was in a bad mood and she was sad as she had fight with this guy she "love" or somthin like that and we were talking and she told me that i am the only one who care about her and nobody else does .. well in this moment .. i told her about my love to her and again i was heart broken when she told me that we r just friends and our relation wont work coz of the distance , i wanted to back off when she told me that but i couldn't .. coz i really loved her ... anyway problems between us started ... for strange reason ..like .. she kept telling me i changed and i dont give her any attention or anytime of mine ... and that i flarit with any girl i meet and these stuffs , but aren't these stuffs for "just friends" ... i wanna tell u somthin "i feel that she lie and i am more than just friend for her, rite ??".. anyway these problems developed and reached that i ignored her YM and she did same to mine for amonth but again we came back to talking ... , i need help plz .. what shall i do about all of this ... shall i back off or i just keep trying to make her love me or declare her love to me ..!! plz help , and maybe i would need help for some nice songs to show her my love ...

[cansu]

first of all i wanna tell you that you are not that desperate...and as i understood you are stıll ınlove wıth her don't you?and according to me don't ever try her to love you because thıs ıs love dude!!you cannot do it by pushın people or somethın'ıf she wıll love you she wıll ıf God want to...don't forget..and don't be pessımıstıc because she knows about yor love don't she?ı hope you wıll be okey soon..but don't be pessımıstıc ok?everythıngs goıng to be okey ı hope because thıs ıs love noone knows what wıll next step goıng to be

[MAD]

tx cansu , i aperciate ur answer and i will try to follow it

[shy.sushi]

Hi! cansu is right... just keep talking with her, be her friend and don't push ... if things are gonna happen... they WILL happen... things are for a reason

See u

[MAD]

thats what i am going to do .. well .. i dont have any other choice!