Jeff Buckley - Last Goodbye
Madonna - Power of Goodbye
Joy Division - Love Will Tear Us Apart (most people have no idea what the lyrics actually are but they are amazing)
Monaco - What Do You Want From Me? (the title alone says it

)
New Order - Regret (can't even start to describe how perfectly this song captures that 'gotta get out' feeling)
Garbage - It's All Over But The Crying (I am partial to the remix rather than the original)
Depeche Mode - In Your Room
Flock of Seagulls - Ran (So Far Away)
The Cure - Letter to Elise (one of my faves) and
Charlotte Sometimes or
Bloodflowers (wait...
that might be the fave - well, can't go wrong with The Cure in this area in general)
and as a finale:
It's My Life - Talk Talk (original) or
No Doubt (both great and perfect for 'give me my life back' type energy, and Gwen does an amazing job of it)
....well I could go on but hope this helps give you some 'psyched up' to do it anthems - of course depending on the circumstances you might want to look to the heavier or lighter side.
DIRECTIONS: Listen to tracks with drink as needed until symptoms dissapear (no guarantees, may have some side effects!:P) - Dj Kay