We love each other but can't be together...

[Girl next door]

If you could help me with the songs (I'd prefer anything gothic, metal, rock, epic, pagan/folk; very melodic, rather fast, with a beat or drums) for my situation, I'd be so very grateful!

So here's my story -
there's a man I'm in love with for more than a year (the same with him). There are no love triangles, we're both currently single. But still we decided not to be together because there are sooooo many differences between us (that love wouldn't be able to conquer).

Some of the most significant:
religion (I believe in God, he doesn't);
social status (I'm socially active, with many friends, attending parties every weekend, while he's unsocial and practically an outcast);
values in life (mine is- family; I'm not sure he even has ANY values (except for the love for me)).

Basically I'm seeking for the songs (well, yes I know how cliche it sounds...) about a tipical good girl and a typical bad guy, who can't live without each other, yet probably wouldn't be able to live together too; and about their possible future together (or apart for that matter...).

Sorry for the lack of briefness in this thread
I'll be truly and utterly grateful for any song suggestions!!

[TheMusicLuvR]

I don't see any major reason why you can't be together, but here's a beautiful song that might help you right now: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5XhufW7-c_k

Love Will Find A Way (NOT the Christina Agulera one. It's from a Disney...XD Sorry, but it feels like you TOTALLY need to listen to this right now.)

[Girl next door]

Thanks so very much for the song suggestion, TheMusicLuvR You were absolutely right, I found the lyrics truly inspirational )

As for the reasons - there are more, not only those I mentioned, but still deep in my heart I DO believe that we will be together someday. He just has to become a little better person and I need to get a little worse

[Tahira]

MAybe you will like U2 "iwth or without you"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEfSnjL0pd8

[Girl next door]

Thanks Tahira!
I really really love With or without you, and listening to it always makes me think about my situation...

[LiLOnE]

also..
"with you"by Chris Brown
that song iss great

[LiLOnE]

deeply in lovee<3
do you guys believe in young lovee??
well i want a song that talks about young love..
can you help me..
thanx

[Girl next door]

Thanks, LiLOnE, I'll check out your suggestion!

And yes I believe in most kinds of love (why wouldn't I? ) So tell me what music genres do you prefer and i'll try to find something for you!

[Ultimate DJ]

Hello Girlnxtdoor,
Theres a new song out by Kelly Clarkson thats called My Life Would Suck Without You. Could really work, its quite moving.


good luck dear!!!


PURAVIDA
DJ

[Girl next door]

Thanks, Ultimate DJ, I'll deffinately look for this song! The lyrics truly match my situation.

[Sparkiwi]

Heart - Magic Man

Cold late night so long ago
When I was not so strong you know
A pretty man came to me
Never seen eyes so blue
I could not run away
It seemed wed seen each other in a dream
It seemed like he knew me
He looked right through me
Come on home, girl he said with a smile
You dont have to love me yet
Lets get high awhile
But try to understand
Try to understand
Try try try to understand
Im a magic man.

Winter nights we sang in tune
Played inside the months of moon
Never think of never
Let this spell last forever
Summer over passed to fall
Tried to realize it all
Mama says shes worried
Growing up in a hurry

Come on home, girl mama cried on the phone
Too soon to lose my baby yet my girl should be at home!
But try to understand, try to understand
Try try try to understand
Hes a magic man, mama
Hes a magic man

Come on home, girl he said with a smile
I cast my spell of love on you a woman from a child!
But try to understand, try to understand
Im a magic man!

Also in the same vein "Mama - Laura Branigan"

[portena]

Nick Cave has a great album which picks up on the religious theme you refer to - its "Boatman's Call". I'm sure (based only on a hunch) that in some way all the songs are about a girl he loved but couldn't have because of some faith/religious barriers (i'm happy to be corrected, but that's what I've taken out of it).

In particular I'm thinking of the song "Into My arms":

"I don't believe in an interventionist God
But I know, darling, that you do
But if I did I would kneel down and ask Him
Not to intervene when it came to you
Not to touch a hair on your head
To leave you as you are
And if He felt He had to direct you
Then direct you into my arms"

and also (ref: his belief in you but not a higher being) "there is a Kingdom"

"just like a bird that sings up the sun
In a dawn so very dark
Such is my faith for you
Such is my faith
And all the world's darkness can't swallow up
A single spark
Such is my love for you
Such is my love

There is a kingdom
There is a king
And he lives without
And he lives within

I related to this album myself once, in a very personal way. Its a cracker, but very depressing.

Goodluck!

[random kid]

everything you want - vertical horizon

[atmaster]

"Without You" by Harry Nilsson

(I prefer Harry's original version but you might like the cover by Mariah Carey)

[elenina]

...why not Paranoid, by Black Sabbath?!? here you are the lyrics:

Finished with my woman
'cause she couldn't help me with my mind
People think I'm insane
because I am frowning all the time

All day long I think of things
but nothing seems to satisfy
Think I'll lose my mind
if I don't find something to pacify

Can you help me, occupy my brain?
Oh yeah
I need someone to show me
the things in life that I can't find
I can't see the things that make true happiness,
I must be blind

Make a joke and I will sigh
and you will laugh and I will cry
Happiness I cannot feel and
love to me is so unreal

And so as you hear these words
telling you now of my state
I tell you to enjoy life
I wish I could but it's too late

...talking about men wiyh no passions or enthusiasm...maybe it's a bit too negative but after all, it' a great song!

[nnloso]

lacuna coil - heaven's a lie

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lacuna_coil

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixxtnrWb17Y

Oh no,
here it is again
I need to know
when I will fall in decay

Something wrong
with every plan of my life
I didn't really notice that you've been here

Dolefully desired
Destiny of a lie

Set me free
your heaven's lie
set me free with you love
set me free

Oh no,
here it is again
I need to know
why did I choose to betray you

Something wrong
with all the plans of my life
I didn't realize that you've been here

Dolefully desired
Destiny of a lie

Set me free
your heaven's lie
set me free with you love
set me free

[nnloso]

and anyway : your location : over the hills and far away.

that is a song of nightwish

[atmaster]

"Halfway Around The World" by A*Teens

[Girl next door]

Thank you all for the great suggestions!
Especially nnloso, that was witty!

You reminded me of some really good songs I had forgotten (everything you want; heaven's a lie; over the hills and far away) and also gave completely new ideas )

[high priestess]

I'm in a simuliar situation and find myself listening to this song alot.. "Taking Over Me" By Evanescence

[high priestess]

"Once You Love Somebody" Journey


Two young hearts lost in love they vow to stay,
Running wild they believe they've found a way
Filled with hope
She's the dream, she understands you
Now this time He'll hold on, she'll never leave him
They'll never let go 'cause...

Once you love somebody, (once you love)
There's no turning back (turning back)
It can burn forever, it can haunt you, haunt you in the night


How can lovers just turn and walk away
Loneliness is an edge that cuts both ways
So easy to fall
So hard to get over


Once you love somebody, (once you love)
There's no turning back (turning back)
It can burn forever, it can haunt you, haunt you in the night


So easy to fall, so hard to get over
Once you love somebody, (once you love)
There's no turning back (turning back)
It can burn forever, it can haunt you, haunt you in the night


(Once you love somebody), once you love
(they can break your heart), no no no
It can burn forever, letting go, that's the hardest part

[high priestess]

I'm in a simuliar situation and find myself listening to this song alot.. "Taking Over Me" By Evanescence

[high priestess]

"Once You Love Somebody' Journey


Two young hearts lost in love they vow to stay,
Running wild they believe they've found a way
Filled with hope
She's the dream, she understands you
Now this time He'll hold on, she'll never leave him
They'll never let go 'cause...

Once you love somebody, (once you love)
There's no turning back (turning back)
It can burn forever, it can haunt you, haunt you in the night


How can lovers just turn and walk away
Loneliness is an edge that cuts both ways
So easy to fall
So hard to get over


Once you love somebody, (once you love)
There's no turning back (turning back)
It can burn forever, it can haunt you, haunt you in the night


So easy to fall, so hard to get over
Once you love somebody, (once you love)
There's no turning back (turning back)
It can burn forever, it can haunt you, haunt you in the night


(Once you love somebody), once you love
(they can break your heart), no no no
It can burn forever, letting go, that's the hardest part

[PlainChaos]

Looked through my whole music library to find something for you!
I hope these will help, I'm not sure though, but I esp. think you'll like the first one!

10 Years - Just Can't Win
Within Temptation - See Who I Am
Hoobastank - Unaffected
Vertical Horizon - Everything You Want
Celldweller - Symbiont

[Afet]

hiii Girl next door, here is a song which ı love!
and ı think maaaaybe you could like (ı hope)
Here without you-3 Doors Down

A hundred days have made me older
Since the last time that I saw your pretty face
A thousand lies have made me colder
And I don't think I can look at this the same
But all the miles that separate
Disappear now when I'm dreaming of your face

I'm here without you baby
But you're still on my lonely mind
I think about you baby
And I dream about you all the time

I'm here without you baby
But you're still with me in my dreams
And tonight it's only you and me, yeah

The miles just keep rollin'
As the people leave their way to say hello
I've heard this life is overrated
But I hope that it gets better as we go, oh yeah yeah

I'm here without you baby
But you're still on my lonely mind
I think about you baby
And I dream about you all the time

I'm here without you baby
But you're still with me in my dreams
And tonight girl it's only you and me

Everything I know and anywhere I go
It gets hard but it won't take away my love
And when the last one falls, when it's all said and done
It gets hard but it won't take away my love, whoa

I'm here without you baby
But you're still on my lonely mind
I think about you baby
And I dream about you all the time

I'm here without you baby
But you're still with me in my dreams
And tonight girl it's only you and me, yeah oh yeah oh


here you are and ı wish someday you'll be with him, good luck

[Girl next door]

high priestess,
thank you for the suggestion, I really love "Taking over me"! You're in the same situation? Then we probably should wish luck to each other!)

PlainChaos,
I'm surprised that I hadn't heard this 10 Years song before, because I can really relate to the lyrics, they're beautiful!! Thank you for this and the other suggestions

Afet,
Thanks so much for the kind words! I love the song you suggested and really appreciate you support)!

[PlainChaos]

I knew you'd like it!
I've felt the same way before, so I thought you might like it, it's a complicated situation, definitely...
Just hope the best for you! ._.

You seem to have a cool taste in music, by the way, and if you hadn't heard about 10 Years before you should really check them out, they're a quite unknown band, but I can assure you they're definitely talented!

[Girl next door]

Thank you sou much, PlainChaos!
I'll deffinately check out other 10 Years songs, for I really enjoy getting to know new cool bands!

[Afet]

you're welcome always Girl next door, hope really everything wll be alright for you,wish you fulfill this love..just don't care and follow what you feel,that's all

[Girl next door]

Many many thanks Afet !
That is exactly what I will do, come what may