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04-18-2008, 04:56 PM
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#61 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by descarada1982
Yes I agree, love doesnt know border. I personally never had boyfriend from my country.. All of them were foreigners.. Italian, american, german, turk.. And all of them were handsome and intelligent. But the turk is someway special.. Prettier, sweeter, funnier, more passionate... I simply fell for a turkish man... :-)
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04-19-2008, 12:04 AM
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#62 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by descarada1982 View Post
Yes I agree, love doesnt know border. I personally never had boyfriend from my country..
And what about your husband??
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04-19-2008, 03:28 AM
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#63 (permalink)
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lool veronika: )
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04-19-2008, 08:17 AM
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#64 (permalink)
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Location: Bratislava, Slovakia
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Volcano1985: I dont work internationally... I love internationally...
Cyberbabe: He is Italian, from Venice.
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04-20-2008, 01:58 AM
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#65 (permalink)
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can i just ask
some turkish boys
dont they just want to settle down?
like i have a turk/kurd boyfriend
and im also turk/kurd
and all he wants is to settle down
but im scared of his mother 
but inshaAllah she'll like me
and also
i know lots of friends in turkey(girls)
who are going out/engaged with boys
and their australian
and to cyberbabe
with this friend of yours
in my opinion
keep talking to him
coz i know how hard it is to say goodbye
just maybe dont believe everything he says
until you see him next
and maybe he has had millions of girlfriends
but anything before you shouldnt affect your friendship/relationship
and also the only complication you'll have with him
is his mother
but dont worry
you dont have to say goodbye
and i understand you
its very diffulcult
take care everyone
xx
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04-20-2008, 05:31 AM
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#66 (permalink)
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'Don't they just want to settle down'? That's an easy question.
If he wants to settle down, he will. If he rather wants to screw around, he won't settle down. Uuh.. mother-in-laws... always tricky  .
A guy who immediatly says he loves you, can't be trusted. It says one thing about him and that's that he doesn't know the meaning of the world love.
Don't listen to the words that come out of his mouth but take a look at his actions cause they speak louder than words.. ALWAYS.
Love is the most simple thing on this planet, it's not complicated at all.
If you love someone, there's nothing you wouldn't do for this person if you think that this person is worthy of your love.
If someone tells you that he loves you but he's not willing to prove it, than everything should be clear to you.
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04-20-2008, 06:11 AM
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#67 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by NPazarka
'Don't they just want to settle down'? That's an easy question.
If he wants to settle down, he will. If he rather wants to screw around, he won't settle down. Uuh.. mother-in-laws... always tricky  .
A guy who immediatly says he loves you, can't be trusted. It says one thing about him and that's that he doesn't know the meaning of the world love.
Don't listen to the words that come out of his mouth but take a look at his actions cause they speak louder than words.. ALWAYS.
Love is the most simple thing on this planet, it's not complicated at all.
If you love someone, there's nothing you wouldn't do for this person if you think that this person is worthy of your love.
If someone tells you that he loves you but he's not willing to prove it, than everything should be clear to you.
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I absolutely agree with you..
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04-20-2008, 07:23 AM
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#68 (permalink)
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xoNuraox : thanks a lot for your help... It is good idea - I do it like this!
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04-20-2008, 07:28 AM
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#69 (permalink)
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descarada1982 : He is Italian.. ? hmm.. which language do you speak at home? with your child?
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04-20-2008, 07:57 AM
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#70 (permalink)
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OMG xoNuraox!
I guess it's the same in every country/every religion.. their mothers!
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Originally Posted by Cyberbabe
Volcano : don´t waste my time with him? Maybe, you are right.. but it is hard to say goodbye and never see him again........If I come to Turkey this summer, what will I do there? I don´t understand him without dictionary
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Do not worry Cyberbabe! lol I am sure you will find something to do and you will understand eachother without dictionaries! If you don't.. well, in that case I'd agree with Volcano - don't waste your time...
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Originally Posted by sanalfikret
"Turkish boys are bad - they want only sex"
 turkish boys want sex, huh? extraordinary! I can't imagine any other country on the world with a male young-adult population craving for sex...
silly turkish boys and their sex desire... tsk tsk tsk
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Well.. all in all, this is a very interesting topic! Just yesterday I was given a speech from a girl who has had some Turkish bfriends (including a serious relationship) in the past years and her point was that what makes them different from guys from other countries is that they don't just ditch you afterwards ... well... hm...
Truth is, they (and I mean the guys you meet in holiday resorts) are famous for saying "I love you" (in many languages) the first time they lay their eyes on you and I'm the type that would run for my life if someone did that to me! It's also a fact they are different.. try making a Turkish guy angry and you'll see the difference! lol On the other hand I agree we shouldn't generalize... Everybody is different!
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04-20-2008, 08:16 AM
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#71 (permalink)
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the thing is
even though were together now
i still dont accept those words
"i love you"
the words askim and canim are used frequently
but yh i make him angry
when i call him a yalanci "donkey" 
but when he gets angry
he sort of doesnt stay angry
like he leaves me
and then he comes back maybe an hour later saying sorry
and out fights are always over how i dont trust him
i do
but everygirl knows that you dont just give in
and we were friends for a while before we started going out
but i also want to ask
he asked my mum for my hand
and he goes
i want your daughters hand in marriage
i love nura -_-
i mean should i believe he wants to settle down?
xx
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04-20-2008, 08:50 AM
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#72 (permalink)
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xoNuraox : I don´t know him, but if he asked your mother for your hand.. I think it means he loves you
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04-20-2008, 08:53 AM
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#73 (permalink)
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Well asking your hand in marriage proves that he wants to settle down.. Maybe you don't want to settle down?
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04-20-2008, 09:07 AM
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#74 (permalink)
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yh
im sure the tables have turned here
and the girl doesnt
i mean i love him
but i really dont want to be a housewife
i really want to go to university
and when he asked her
i just got so shocked
and after when he told me he loved me
i told him tht he was a lier
and he said
if i was lying
why would i want to marry youu
boys are too confusing
but cyberbabe
and NPazarka
i guess this happens to everyone
its just cold feet
i think
thanks for your help
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04-20-2008, 10:22 AM
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#75 (permalink)
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Location: Czech republic
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xoNuraox : You can tell him YES, but the wedding can be later, or no? For example 5 years later... And if he loves you, he will wait for you.
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04-20-2008, 10:52 AM
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#76 (permalink)
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Cyberbabe: When I met him I didnt know a word in italian, so we spoke english.. And wekeep it like this until now. He talks english with our son too, not italian.. Only few sentences.. sometimes... And I speak slovak with my son.
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04-20-2008, 11:06 AM
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#77 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Volcano1985
You work internationally then 
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bu topikten anladığıma göre bence türk erkekleri uluslararası çalışıyor =))
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04-20-2008, 11:17 AM
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#78 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by marmaris
bu topikten anladığıma göre bence türk erkekleri uluslararası çalışıyor =))
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euheue orası kesin
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04-20-2008, 11:27 AM
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#79 (permalink)
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Cyberbabe
the thing is, he says he is young too
and tht we can grow up together as a family
and right now he is doing his national service
and he told me
he doesnt want to waste time being boyfriend and girlfriend
i dont know whether ive got a turk boy 1 in a million
or if i just got another "dickhead"
descarada1982: No woman is an oruspu
it is just a foul language
if there is love in the air
theres no way stopping
people do stupid things when in love
i think no woman should be called that
but i feel so sorry about the situation you were in
did u have to say goodbye?
xx
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04-20-2008, 11:47 AM
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#80 (permalink)
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darling,
is there anyway of not seeing him
but theres one thing you have to ask yourself
is your husband worth your love
or is he
because the answer to this question
can either make or break you
xx
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04-20-2008, 11:49 AM
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#81 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by descarada1982
Cyberbabe: When I met him I didnt know a word in italian, so we spoke english.. And wekeep it like this until now. He talks english with our son too, not italian.. Only few sentences.. sometimes... And I speak slovak with my son.
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ooo nice, your son is ´bilingual´!  but when you tell him something, your husband doesn´t understand, or no?
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04-20-2008, 11:56 AM
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#82 (permalink)
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xoNuraox : I cannot be suprised that he wants to be with you and marry to you.. You are very very nice girl
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04-20-2008, 12:19 PM
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#83 (permalink)
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thank you so much Cyberbabe
you've quite literelly made my day
I hope everything goes well with this friend of yours
everything happens for a reason
and i wish u the very best
xx
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04-20-2008, 12:45 PM
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#84 (permalink)
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Cyberbabe.. no my husband doesnt understand my language. Only few basic sentences.. like dobry den, dakujem, ucet...
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04-20-2008, 01:14 PM
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descarada1982 : what will happen, if he comes here and reads it (about your turkish friend)? Are you afraid of it?
Last edited by Cyberbabe : 04-20-2008 at 01:45 PM.
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04-20-2008, 01:42 PM
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#86 (permalink)
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