I am looking for contemporary pop songs that express the theme "don't try to be something you are not just to fit in with the crowd; true happiness lies in being yourself."

Although it's more goth/metal than I like, the best example I have found is "Everybody's Fool" by Evanescence.

I am not looking for "you're beautiful just the way you are" kind of songs, so I don't need references to Selena Gomez or Christina Aguilera.

Thanks for your help.

Here is Everybody's Fool http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u55fpsbzAfk

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdc3lqKv-_M

take a good listen to this