desperatly searching for a song

Hey,

I am looking for a song that I heard in a store a couple of weeks ago. I am pretty sure I heard it before and since I thought I could easily find it via google I did not bother to ask anyone what CD was playing.

It is sung by a man, style is indie/rock, not very fast and two weeks ago I was absolutely sure it goes "if it's love that you wanted da da da da da da da my love..."
Since I could not find anything with these lyrics, I think I misunderstood them. Maybe it ist "this is not what you wanted" or "is it love that you wanted".

Any advice is welcome since I am starting to get a little desperate. Thank you so much in advance!

This one?

Black Rebel Motorcycle Club - It's Not What You Wanted

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4_6Xqk4CX7c

Also try>
Spector - what you wanted
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Thanks for the fast reply but both Songs are not the one I'm looking for.
My song is slower, more like a ballad. I thought I'd found it when I heard Jet's "Look what you've Done" in the Radio as it sounds pretty similar in some parts.