Please help...

I heard a song on the radio the other day, and all that i remember was 'pretend the phone rings, and pretend it's me' or something like that i know it's either pop-rock/punk/or what some people call 'emo' all I know is that it was onn a regular station because they where playing dani califonia after it, if ANYONE has any idea what song that i am talking aout PLEASE help me!!!

I did not find a good match for your lyrics.
However, it does remind me of an old Jim Reeves (C&W) song, "He`ll Have To Go" (1960).
Put your sweet lips a little closer to the phone
Just pretend that we`re together all alone

It has been covered by numerous C&W artists and even Elvis Presley.
The most recent cover I can find by a non-C&W artist is Elvis Costello.

Yeah, that's not it. All I know is there something about her, late at night pretending the phone rings, and pretending it's me

Next wild guess is "Marking Time" by Roy Drusky

In the dark of the night when you're holding her tight
Do you know she's pretending it's me

This is a super longshot guess based on the fact that the lyrics look very, very "emo" and has some of your key words.
"Unwelcome" by Jasmine Whenham

Told you that I love you
You must have misheard
Maybe you were searching for a catchier verb
Wrote it in a letter
But you misunderstood
I should've known you would

And now I'm unwelcome
You've made that quite clear
I am unwelcome
To come around here
And if I call you on the phone
You'll pretend you're not at home
And I'm crying to the dial tone

I am in love and unwelcome
I am in love and unwelcome
Dying to get back to where I fell from
When I fell for you

Guess I'll go walking
And try to clear my head
My mind keeps on rewinding to the last thing you said
Told me that it's over
and you sounded sincere
There's nothing left for me here

And now I'm unwelcome
You've made that quite clear
I am unwelcome
To come around here
And if I call you on the phone
You'll pretend you're not at home
And I'm crying to the dial tone

I am in love and unwelcome
I am in love and unwelcome
Dying to get back to where I fell from
When I fell for you

When did I become so weak- what was I thinking
Always turned the other cheek- what was I thinking
Never should've tried to speak my mind- what was I thinking
Really should've known, really should've known, should've known better

And now I'm unwelcome
You've made that quite clear
I am unwelcome
To come around here
And if I call you on the phone
You'll pretend you're not at home
And I'm crying to the dial tone

I am in love and unwelcome
I am in love and unwelcome
Dying to get back to where I fell from
When I fell for you
I am dying to get back to where I fell from
When I fell from you