Help translating words to latin

Hello, i was wondering if someone can help me translate these words into Latin

IN ORDER TO BE BEAUTIFUL, ONE MUST SUFFER.

patitur ut formosus sit

or

pateris ut formosus sis

Ummm what's the difference? Lol
thank you btw!

patitur ut formosus sit = he/one suffers in order to be beautiful

pateris ut formosus sis = you suffer in order to be beautiful

if you are talking about a girl you should replace formosus with formosa