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    another one...sorry guys i feel so stupid

    VSY:
    of, az ako mojeh izpobshto da sledvam razuma i logikata v tazi situacia

    AB:
    neznam kk go pravi ama se radva 4 emoje

    VSY:
    hteshe da e 1000 puti po lesno

    AB:
    daaa, to vinagi tova e problema
    ne samo 4e iska6 da sledva6 sarceto si
    ami i *nqkaksi kato 4e li nqma otgovor na vaprosa koe e po-dobre da sledva6 razuma ili sarceto
    i men li4no tova o6t pove4e me ubarkva
    4e ne sam n 100 % ubedena 4e e po-pravilno da se sledva razuma
    a ako bqh, pone tova 6te6e da me kara da se opitvam da go sledvam

    VSY:
    dobre deeeee, kaji mi,golemiya mi vupros, kum joro imam chuvstva, kum john e razumna obich, s koi e po-goliam shansa da sum neshtastna ako se ojenia za nego

    AB:
    offf vanini ako znaehhh
    kato 4e li jivota pokazva 4e s joro 6te si po-ne6tatsna
    ili pone po mnenie na hora spove4e opit e taka
    ama az ne sam si izgradila qsno mennie po vaprosa
    nqkaksi da se li6a na 23 godini ot strastta i burnite emcoii mi se struva da si osakatq mladite godini ot jivota
    oba4e qvno se okazva 4e kato se stigne do svatbi i tn epo-dobre da se misli razumno
    ama az o6te ne mislq za svatba

    VSY:
    offffffff, i az ne iskam oshte da mislia
    i daje me plashi misulta che john shte mi predloji i az shte triabva da kaja da za da ne go zagubia
    azniama da sum si izjiviala neshto
    deto mi lipsva

    AB:
    tova e gadno da
    smisal znam 4e ot edna strana za nego e ujasno da ne kaje6 da
    ama ot druga ne moje6 da kaje6 da po zadaljenie
    i za da ne zagubi6 nqkoi
    ako toi ne moje da razbere 4e ti ne si gootva zna4i ne e tova 4oveka
    ina4e da i az sam si mislila kakvo 6te kaje6 ako john ti predloji

    VSY:
    taka e

    AB:
    za6toto toa mi se struva napalno realno
    i si mislq 4e bi kazal da

    VSY:
    az vuv vseki udoben moment mu namekvam che mi e rano

    AB:
    e toi razira ot nameci taka 4e predpolagam 4e nqma da go napravi togava

    VSY:
    ami da, toi mn iska, az dam li mu znak oshteutre shte mi predloji

    AB:
    i az taka si mislq, 4e toi samo tova 4aka

    VSY:
    aham 100 %

    AB:
    a ti ne bi kazala da sas 100 % ubedenost taka li

    VSY:
    ami adi kogato sum tam i sum okolo nego si mislia che sum 100% ubedena
    kato ne sum pokrai nego ei taka
    i zapochvam da se sumniavam

    AB:
    e da de ama vse pak braka pedpolaga da se misli kak se 4uvstva6 S tozi 4ovek
    a ne kak se 4uvstva6 kogato ne si do nego

    VSY:
    da, prava si
    v mnogo momenti kato sum s nego me kara da se chuvstvam tolkova unikalno che mi e eidelo da mu kaja aide da se jenim
    ot druga strana kato si doida v bg poniakoga izobshto ne mi lipsva, chak plasheshto
    chuvstvam se siakash utre da se razdeim az moga suvsem spokoinoda produlja da jiveya bez nego
    dokato pri joro beshe tochno obratnotot, strahuvah se ot misulta che niama da moga bez nego
    dokato na joro ne smeeh nishto da mu kaja che da ne se skarame i razdelim, s john neshto kato ne mi iznasia vednaga si kazvam i izobshto ne se pritesniavam che moje dase skarame, kato me iznervi suvsem spokoino moga da mu kaja da si gleda rabotata

    AB:
    emi tova e hubavo
    smisal ne e hubavo izob6to da ne te e strah da zagubi6 tozi 4ovek
    ama ot druga strana neprestanniq strah i tova da prenebregva6 tova,koeto 4uvstva6 e po-zle
    ne 4e se opitvam da te ubedq da se ojeni6 za john

    AB:
    ama si razsajdavam

    VSY:
    ama ti hubao si razsujdavash
    adi spored teb da otida li napsiholog

    AB:
    ami da moje
    az sam za
    kakuvto i da e rezultata, ne mislq 4e tova moje da ti navredi po nqkakuv na4in

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    VSY:
    Pff, i if i only could follow common sense and logic in this situation

    AB:
    I dont know how he/she does it, but im glad he/ she can do it

    VSY:
    It would be 1000 times easier
    AB:
    yeeeees, thats the problem all the time
    Not only that u wanna follow ur heart
    but its like theres no answer to the question if it's better to follow your heart or your mind
    and as regarding me, it makes me even more confused
    that im not 100% sure that its right to follow ur mind
    and if i was sure, it would be at least easier for me to try to follow it

    VSY:
    Okaaaaaaaay, tell me, my big question, i have feelings for Joro, my love for John is reasonable (i.e. comes from my mind,is right). Whit which of them the chance that ill be miserable after the wedding is bigger

    AB:
    oh, vani, only if i knew
    i guess life shows that ull be more miserable with Joro
    or t least more experienced ppl say so
    but personally me, i dont have a clear oppinion on this matter
    it seems to me that to deprive myself from passion and loud emotions at the age of 23 is like killing my youth
    though, it seems like it turns out that when it comes to weddings, its better to follow ur mind
    but i dont want to get married just yet

    VSY:
    offffffff,i dont wanna think about weddings yet as well
    and im so scared of the thought that john will propose to me and ill have to say yes not to lose him
    and i wont have lived everything, ill be missing something


    AB:
    yes, it sucks
    i mean, on the one hand for him it would be awful if you dont say yes
    but on the other hand you cant say yes out of responsibility/duty
    and not to lose somebody
    if he cant understand that u r not ready yet, then it means hes not the one
    and yeah, ive been wondering what u would say if he proposes u

    VSY:
    yes, u r right

    AB:
    because it seems absolutely real to me
    and i have the feeling that u'd say yes

    VSY:
    i use every chance i get to give him a hint that its too early for me

    AB:
    Well he is good at understanding hints, so i guess he wont do it then

    VSY:
    well yes, but he really wants to, if i just give him the sign, he'll propose me the next second

    AB:
    well, i also think that he's just waiting for ur sign

    VSY:
    yup 100 %

    AB:
    and you wouldnt 100% say yes ?

    VSY:
    well adi when im there with him, around him, i think that im 100% sure
    and when im not around him i start to doubt

    AB:
    well yes, but marriage presupposes how u will feel WITH the person, not without him

    VSY:
    yes, u r right
    so many times, when ive been with him, he was making me feel in such a unique way that i have been at the point of tellin him "ok lets get married right now"
    on the other hand, when i come back to BG sometimes i dont even miss him, it even scares me
    i feel like even if we break up ill be fine, ill continue living without him
    while with Joro it was exactly the opposite, i was scared of the thought that i wont survive without him
    while i didnt dare tell joro anyhing bad just not to get into a fight with him and split, when im with john, whenever i dont like something, i tell him right away and im not even scared that we might quarrel, when he starts gettin on my nerves, i can tell him to mind his own business

    AB:
    well thats god
    i mean, its not good at all that u r not scared that you can lose this person
    but on the other hand the constant fear and suppressing what u feel is worse
    its not that im trying to convince u to marry john

    AB:
    Im just thinking aloud

    VSY:
    its good that u r thinkin aloud
    adi, what do u think, should i see a psychologist?

    AB:
    well yes, why not
    i say yes
    whatever the result is, i dont think that it will hurt

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