Originally Posted by
Semlin
Because they were not complaining for the sake of complaining, but decided to CHANGE what they didn't like. They didn't like the cave so they decided to LEAVE the cave and live in another place and in a different way that suits them better.
Your example with a company customers is partly a wrong one, but okay. Surely you'd like the customers to complain rather to go away without saying anything. But if they complain, and you don't change anything, what happens? Some customers will keep coming and keep complaining, and some won't come anymore. That's the difference in mentality - some complain for the sake of complaining, and some try to change what they don't like, and if they realize they can't change it there, then they go away and look for another place that suits them better. That is the difference.
You have said before you live in Germany and you complain a lot, right? Why are you living there if it's that bad? You don't go back where you came from, why? Because it's even worse there, right? But you don't look for another place that would suit you better, you don't go to another country where it's better then in Germany, you just sit there and complain for the sake of complaining, right? That's the mentality, pal... You may like it or not, but that's the mentality nevertheless...