HELP! obscure song

I heard this song a few weeks ago at Kohls...female singer with a line that goes something like "how do i make you change" or "how can I make you change your ways" or something similar....I know I am not giving much good information to go on...but I'd love to find this song!
Thanks!

I might not get this right on the first try. Let's start with this song:

"How Am I To Be" by The Watson Twins
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJZOr_UcPlU

Phenomenal! That was it....thank you sooo much!