Solved: Help with kohls song!

I believe this song was just recently put in to the Kohl's playlist. I can't tell if its a woman with a raspy voice or a man with a higher voice singing, but the chorus is something about "i will crush you/ i will tear you apart" something like that.

"Mess Of You" by Kimberly Caldwell
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tTzdikDzk5U

Wow, i was reading your other responses to people and i was wondering if you were really that good.

Thanks alot bug, i hate having a song in the back of my head that i dont know.