Solved: i'm sick of looking

ok i'm looking for this song... duh xd sorry
if heard it a couple of times and i even saw the videoclip
but the name was never there
ok ik know only a little part of the refrain
but it is a well know song so i hope that isn't a problem:
"this is how i feel loosing all my.... when you kiss me on the floor"
'i'm already gone"
that's about it xd
but in the clip you see
a girl-woman with short brown hair
who is standing on a set
and while she is singing
people are breaking down the set

ok i hope someone knows the song
otherwise i will be sad...

"Torn" by Natalie Imbruglia
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VV1XWJN3nJo

thank you sooooo much
your a life safer
i would hug you if i could
thx