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    Default Can't be together....please help me find a song

    I am still in love with my first love but we are both married to other people, need a song that says how much I love him even though we can never be together. We recently reconnected don't worry we didn't cheat, but we both have seperate lives now and it is killing me...I told him we can't talk to eachother anymore but this is so hard and I feel like a part of me is empty inside now. Please help me find a song. Thanks
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    Hi,
    Here are different songs from my collection that could fit your situation:

    Goo Goo Dolls - Iris
    A-Ha - Crying in the rain
    Roxette - Silver Blue
    ABBA - The Winner Takes It All
    Point Break - You
    Enya - Fallen Embers
    Damien Rice - Unplayed Piano (feat. Lisa Hannigan)
    E-Rotic - Wish You Were Here
    Boney M - Still I'm Sad
    Apocalyptica - Hope (feat. Matthias Sayer)
    Mika - Happy Ending
    Mike Oldfield - Man In The Rain

    If you could specify what kind of songs you prefer, maybe I could help you more

    I really wish you all the luck and strenght!
    As it is said, the worst way to miss someone is when they are right beside you and yet you know you can never have them...
    When I'm with you, you're killing me. When I'm not, I'm dying...

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    Here are some of my suggestions for your situation:

    NOTHING COMPARES 2 U - Sinnead O'Connor

    YOU DO SOMETHING TO ME - Paul Weller

    NEVER GONNA LET YOU GO - Sergio Mendes

    I'LL STAND BY YOU - The Pretenders

    HOW DO I LIVE - Le Ann Rimes

    I GO CRAZY - Paul Davis

    Really wish you the best....Totally Agree with GIRLNEXTDOOR... So hopefully, love is strong enough to overcome this situation.
    "ES TIEMPO DE CAMBIAR EN LA MENTE DE TODOS, EL ODIO POR AMOR" -Juanes

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    Garbage - You look so fine
    "Lets pretend, a happy end, lets prettend, our happy end..."

    Lyrics:
    http://www.lyrics007.com/Garbage%20L...%20Lyrics.html

    Video:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2bUoqacYmo

    Live Version:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kiv30spj1uo

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    rise against - savior

    It kills me not to know this
    but I've all but just forgotten
    what the color of her eyes were
    and her scars or how she got them

    As the telling signs of age rain down
    a single tear is dropping
    through the valleys of an aging face
    that this world has forgotten

    there is no reconciliation
    that will put me in my place
    and there is no time like the present
    to drink these draning seconds

    but seldom do these words ring true when
    I'm constantly failing you
    like walls that we just can't break through
    until we disappear

    so tell me now
    if this ain't love then how do we get out?
    because I don't know

    that's when she said
    I don't hate you boy
    I just want to save you
    while there's still something left to save

    that's when I told her
    I love you girl
    but I'm not the answer for
    the questions that you still have

    but the day pressed on like crushing weights
    for no man does it ever wait
    like memories of dying days
    that deafen us like hurricanes

    bathed in flames we held the brand
    uncurled the fingers in your hand
    pressed into the flesh like sand
    now do you understand?

    so tell me now
    if this ain't love then how do we get out?
    because I don't know

    that's when she said
    I don't hate you boy
    I just want to save you
    while there's still something left to save

    that's when I told her
    I love you girl
    but I'm not the answer for
    the questions that you still have

    one thousand miles away
    there's nothing left to say
    but so much left that I don't know

    we never had a choice
    this world is too much noise
    it takes me under
    it takes me under once again

    I don't hate you
    I don't hate you, no

    so tell me now
    if this ain't love then how do we get out?
    because I don't know

    that's when she said
    I don't hate you boy
    I just want to save you
    while there's still something left to save

    that's when I told her
    I love you girl
    but I'm not the answer for
    the questions that you still have

    I don't hate you
    I don't hate you, no
    I don't hate you
    I don't hate you, no
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    Im broken...
    Amy Lee n Sheeter

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    I Will Always Love You - Dolly Parton
    She Had You - Mary Lou Lord
    I Still Miss Someone - Johnny Cash / Fairport Convention / Gram Parsons

    And if you really want to torture yourself,
    Strong As Death (Sweet As Love) - Al Green

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    Thank you for all of your suggestions. I like I'm broken just because I like rock and also goo goo dolls one was great. But they were all pretty good. Keep them coming please!!!!

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    I just wanted to say I am going through almost the EXACT situation, the only difference is that he is not married, only I am. It's horrible and I am having such a hard time, I just told him last night that we cannot talk anymore (we also havent cheated), and I'm feeling so empty and sad right now. I listened to Walk Away by Ben Harper and it perfectly fits the situation. I know you posted this a while back but I just wanted to let you know you are not alone.

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    I'm also in a similar situation. I know.... it's heartbreaking. I sent him the song "Even Now" by Barry Manilow.

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    I am totally in the same boat. A love from my past who I never dated. It was always bad timing. But he was my first love for sure. Back in touch, and I have only seen him once because I knew it wasn't right (didn't trust myself either). Feelings are so strong that I finally had to end all communication. It's heartbreaking for each of us, yet we are both married, and have chosen to keep each other in our hearts, and move on. I am looking for songs too! Most are old and sappy. So I'd love to have something more recent. My heart goes out to those of you in the same boat.

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    Default Quote!!

    Quote Originally Posted by CoOl_GiRl View Post
    Im broken...
    Amy Lee n Sheeter
    yes... this song is just perfect!!!
    I am in the same state... so, I can tell you that this song is always with me and with my feelings. I hope you'll like it!

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