Please help Identify female singer and song

Its been driving me nuts for days and I cant remember the lyrics or anything...its a female country singer, I thought maybe reba but no luck, and its about a wife who spent her life cooking cleaning and raising kids...basically her life on hold for her husband and family. I remember its start out slow about washing laundry or something...but one line sticks out...something about watching him climb his way to the top...or watching him build his career, maybe top businessman or something...PLEASE HELP! Its not "Is There Life Out There", but VERY smiliar

I think the song you're on about is called "Suds in the Bucket"
I've no idea who sang it originally

Suds is by Sara Evans, however, it doesn't have that story line.